The actress made her opinion known during a recent interview with The Nation.
According to the author of rebirth, engaging in premarital sex can cause people to cheat on their spouse when they eventually marry. This is beccause they start comparing their partner’s sexual prowess with that of the people they had sex with prior to their marriage.
Asked whether she thinks premarital sex makes relationship complicates, she answers: “Yes I do (think so). Sex before marriage makes relationship more complicated.”
She continues: “Some ladies date more than five men before marriage and sleep with all of them because they see it as a norm or a way to prove their love against God’s standard. I personally believe that there is a lot to sex than the pleasure it gives. It makes you become one with the person. It ties you with the person, such that when you marry you compare your previous sexual life with your present and the memories of how you did it with the other person won’t leave you, expecting more from your husband or wife, forgetting that we are all not the same and our sexual lives can’t be the same as well”.
“That’s (premarital sex) what leads to cheating in marriage. Some men or women can’t imagine been faithful to just one person because they’ve done it with several people in their past or before marriage so it’s difficult. Research has it and I learnt that if you had sex with a particular person if you meet the person years after and you’re alone or whatever, it is very possible that you will do it again”.
To be clear, Olayode, however, thinks “sex is good“, her reservation is withregards to pre-marital sex.
She says: “Sex is good, don’t get me wrong; I mean God created it and everything He made is good and beautiful but sex before marriage is what makes it bad and wrong and sex with anyone else apart from your husband or wife in marriage is bad as well,” she declares.
Ok, you heard her. What do you think of her opinion? Share with us in the comment section.
I think everyone should pick something from this is helpful.
One who wants to cheat will regardless of being a virgin or not
But it doesn’t guarantee the basis of cheating
True it also complicates things
But that’s cos the church warns against it
Yeah true premarital sex isn’t good
Abi ohhh…dats wen you will see some ladies complaining about their husbands
and eventually start having so called boyfriends outside
That’s because they are comparing the sexual prowess of their current partner with their ex’s, after which they start to find the so-called Ex…
They are sexually active that’s the issue
the devil has become peoples reason for cheating
hmmm…there is God ohhhh
There is nothing like devil here ooo…if you cheat, it’s solely your fault and not devil. Don’t be quick to judge Devil abeg. Devil dey him own corner.
af mizz you zo much…on a serious note
she is really making sense premarital sex leads to so many terrible things
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Then they will blame the devil for their cheating problem.
and the guy will be like
“Ah, you can lie”
No devil in this case ohh. It is crystal-clear. When you cheat, you have to own up to your responsibility. Juliana Olayode made a lot of sense in this post.
“more to sex than meets the eye”
tell them
some even go as far absurdity to say “friends without benefit”
#ayemitemibami
You mean to say Friends with Benefit
Actually I watched a movie this afternoon called friends with benefits… Really interesting
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one beautiful thing i have heard this christmas
same here…toyo baby is a blessing to this generation
I agree with Juliana Olayode that Sex before marriage makes things complicated. In the sense that after the lady is already married, if her new hubby isn’t performing well the way she likes, she may start comparing his sexual prowesses to that of other ex’es she has dated in the past. So yes sex before marriage can lead to cheating, it all depends on the lady involved.
my sister not only cheating ohhh buh the trust that guy is supposed to have in you will not be there
Not exactly. If she’s engaging in sex before marriage then she’d have definitely known if her hubby is you know okay in bed. All comparisons will be done before the marriage
Yes you have a point there.
All i just have to say is that GOD time is the best so don’t be in a rush
There is no hurry in life actually.
Sex before marriage can sometimes lead to cheating, especially if the woman is not satisfied with her partner. It all depends on the Love the couple have for themselves.
Hmmm…some people dont understand that they just wanna enjoy being single before they eventually settle down
Yeah true
All i just have to say is that GOD time is the best
thank you ohh..God’s time is really best and ladies should be patient
God’s time is sex after marriage