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Doctor Cupid: 10 qualities of a good wife

The first thing to note from this point on (which is common sense, really) is that no one wants a bad wife. 

However, it is very important to be able to separate a bad wife from one who simply knows her rights and takes advantage of that.

How then, do you identify the difference between a good wife and a bad one? How do you know you are a good wife to your husband or your wife is being good to you?

In this article, we will outline the top 10 qualities to look out for in a good wife.

1. She should be able to communicate

Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. A good wife understands that and is able to talk about her feelings.

She can communicate when she is feeling good, angry, or frustrated with her husband, making the marriage run smoothly.

Doctor Cupid: 10 qualities of a good wife

2. She should be supportive

A good wife should be supportive of her husband’s ideas and actions, especially those that she knows he is passionate about.

3. There should be mutual respect

The best marriages are those where both partners respect each other. There should be mutual respect between a good wife and her husband.

4. She is a great listener

A good wife is a great listener. She is there for her husband when he needs someone to be there for him. She also understands that actually listening to him is a vital part of communication.

5. She is appreciative

Men also love being appreciated for their efforts and a good wife understands this.

6. She is honest

No one wants a dishonest wife. In fact, there is little that can be said if one’s wife is dishonest. Honesty is one of the most important values that one’s spouse can have.

Doctor Cupid: 10 qualities of a good wife

7. She is fun

This is not really a quality of a good wife as much as it is the quality of a good partner. You should be able to have fun with your wife whenever you are hanging out together.

8. A good wife makes good financial decisions

This is one of the most important attributes of a good wife. A wife who makes bad financial decisions will eventually make a bad one that will put the entire family into penury.

9. A good wife helps her husband to be a better person

A good wife knows how to encourage her husband to push forward when he wants to do something new or to tell him to pull back.

Additionally, she is never afraid to point out to him whenever he is making stupid decisions.

10. A good wife treats her husband’s family and friends like her own

The best thing is to marry someone with whom you don’t have to pretend or be split into two over your family and friends. A good wife will never make you choose between her and the people who mean the most to you.

The best advice is to simply love unconditionally, without expecting anything in return. This is the best course of action to take, for both husband and wife.

When you focus on being the best you can be, and accept that your wife is someone with flaws, you will have the best marriage possible.

Don’t forget to share this article and share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Simbiat studied Computer Science at the University of Lagos. She enjoys doing research and spends most of her time reading. She can be contacted at simbiat@sidomexuniversal.com.



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