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The secret key to unlock a committed relationship

Are you feeling that your man needs something more than you can give him and this is causing problems in your relationship? Is it difficult to get your man to agree to a committed relationship? In this article, you will find what has helped many women get their men to keep falling in love with them all over again.

Build your own romantic fairytale

Every natural instinct of a man points to him being a builder. This makes it difficult for such things as romance to come to him naturally. However, with these tips, you will be able to help him become your perfect romantic partner and build a committed relationship with you.

You will find the lost key to unlock his heart and trigger his desire. This is because many men are shy of admitting their true feelings and while some may desire a deeply passionate relationship like women, they will not reveal this. He may even be confused about how to show it.

You may also know what you want your man to do but don’t know how to go about it to avoid coming across as too sensitive, demanding, or dissatisfied. There are trusted processes to get your man to become a hopeless romantic and lovingly commit to you.

Making your man see only you

Many lovers wonder why their men suddenly stopped finding them attractive and would prefer to chase after other women. The answer is that you have stopped being his secret obsession and he is finding it somewhere else.

This may even have nothing to do with your physical appearance. You can be as hot as a supermodel and still, your man may be looking outside the relationship. This is because having a committed relationship has more to do with what a man feels than what he sees.

If your man can no longer feel the thrill of chasing you, you will stop being attractive to him. Here, you have to learn how to balance making him obsess over you and getting frustrated for chasing you non-stop. Click here to see how other women have successfully done this.

Read also: Doctor Cupid: 5 ways to spice up your relationship

Men don’t like commitment, you can change that

Here is why men don’t like commitment; they believe it will tie them down and block them from achieving their mission in life. This is why you can change their fear of commitment. The first thing you need to learn is how to turn your man’s mission into your purpose.

Also, you will need to assure him that you will not obstruct him. Instead of making him see you as a detour, make him see you as a partner on his life’s quest. When you get the answer to why men won’t commit, you can make your man commit to you.

The number one reason why you MAY no longer be a priority

You may have started noticing that your enviable relationship is no longer as it used to be. Can you feel your man drifting away steadily like a boat on a river without an oar? Is he ignoring your texts? All these and more are pointers that your relationship is heading for a pitiful crash.

The reason may be that your man is bored in the relationship. Men, naturally, need something that they exert themselves at. If your relationship does not require him to use his strengths, abilities and resources, he will start losing interest.

While it is not advisable to become a chore, you still need to be seen as a challenge to stay attractive. Check out his secret obsession resources to learn how you can set your man’s heart racing again and commit to building a lasting relationship with you.

Are you doing all the work in the relationship? Stop it!

There is a reason why many women feel like their relationship is stuck; they are doing too much. Women start feeling uncomfortable with a lukewarm relationship and start to do all they can to rekindle the love they once had.

The truth is that most times, this strategy backfires. It will feel like you are swimming against the current in your relationship if you do it all while your man does the bare minimum. In fact, the man may start getting uncomfortable and want out of this kind of situation.

So, instead of doing it all, why not let your man get down on his knees and get his hands dirty? You may not know how but these strategies will help you. A committed relationship with steamy romance is possible, you only need to learn how.

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Obinna
Obinna is a fiction writer from Lagos, Nigeria, and grew up loving comic book characters and superheroes. He watches lots of action films and writes entertainment and technology articles. He is also interested in science and how things work.

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