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Heart to heart: 5 things to consider before giving a second chance to someone who hurt you

Everyone struggles with this at least once in their lives: the decision on whether to give second chances to someone who betrayed them.

Do you give them second chances in good faith and trust that it will never happen again or do you let the relationship go believing that trust can never be rebuilt?

These are some very important question that you need to ask yourself when someone you love or deeply cherish betrays your trust.

Of course, everyone deserves a second chance because we are all capable of mistakes but there are some situations where we might think about it several times and be resolved to never break.

Before you do so, ask yourself these five questions:

  1. Have they been honest?
  2. Have they shown remorse for their actions?
  3. Do they really want a second chance?
  4. Have you both grown as people?
  5. Can you carry on with a relationship with them without feeling wronged or without feeling resentment?

If after answering these questions, you are still convinced that they don’t deserve a second chance, then you don’t have to force anything with them.

Simply explain to them that your relationship is over and then move on to better relationships that serve you and fill you with love and light.

Have you recently severed any ties? Given people second chances? Share your thoughts with us in the comments section below.

Simbiat studied Computer Science at the University of Lagos. She enjoys doing research and spends most of her time reading. She can be contacted at simbiat@sidomexuniversal.com.


  1. There’s nothing to consider here. we don’t give second chances. If they did it before, they’ll do it again.


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