The Re-Birth queen, Nigerian actress Juliana Oloyode who is popularly known as Toyo baby, has dished out fresh advice on relationship to her fans. “Learn how to appreciate the people in your life,” she says.
Recall that at the beginning of the year, the actress advised fans to check out the meaning of their names as the meaning of a person’s name reflects who they are. Well, she has dished out fresh advice for fans and this time it is on how to handle relationships.
According to Toyo baby, she believes people get more love and appreciation when they die than during their lifetime and this really hurts her as she still can’t wrap her head around it.
Read her caption below and share your thoughts about this:
“TAG that person that makes you smile and say ‘thank you’ to them. We all need such people in our lives and if we are blessed to have them, let’s appreciate them as often as we can now that they are alive and can see, hear and read about everything they mean to us because when they are gone, they no longer know what is happening here, they’ll never be able to read the epistle you post about them on social media, or hear the things you tell people about them, or know how much they made you smile and impacted you.
Now is the time to do that; celebrate their birthdays, their anniversaries, their victories, be there for them when they fail, just let them know how much they mean to you.
“I feel like people get more ‘love’ and get more ‘popular’ and get more ‘appreciated’ when they die than in their lifetime and it’s something that really hurts me, it’s something I still can’t wrap my head around. All of a sudden everyone knows that person and posting the person’s picture and writing epistles that they didn’t write in the person’s lifetime when the person could see it or read it.
“It makes me wonder, did you forget this person’s birthday when the person was alive? Did you post about the person’s victory when the person was alive? Did you show the person all the love….. Sigh!!!!!!! Please when you say ‘you are in my prayers ‘ do you even remember to pray for the person or family after the post?
“Bad news seems to get more attention than the good ones.
“Just sharing my thoughts this morning and the summary of everything I am saying is, celebrate people NOW THAT THEY ARE ALIVE because when they leave here(die) THEY ARE GONE FOREVER and it won’t really matter anymore!!! Good morning fam?
“I celebrate y’all
“I love y’all”
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