The outspoken TV gal got engaged to her man a few months ago after three years together.
Sharing a photo of her fiance, she recalled that people suggested that she should settle for less – a divorcee or someone with kids.
She wrote:
“It’s amazing how the world wants to tell you what you do or don’t deserve. ‘Ha! Shade you’re already 35, just manage a divorcee or maybe an older guy or maybe someone with kids, all these young guys don’t like strong women like you. Ha! Shade you’re driving a brand new car, you will chase young guys away. Ha! Shade you’re living in a Penthouse Apartment, they will think you’re an Aristo babe. Ha! Shade you’re too out there on social media, they will think you are too loose.’
“What the world thinks you deserve, what the world wants you to have, is all a reflection of what their minds are limited to. No matter your age, please don’t let anyone define what your life should or should not look like.You decide that shit.
“Take away the power you have given to anyone around you to determine what Success looks like. Define your standards.
“Write them down, keep yourself busy, work on building yourself, don’t ever settle for less. you are Plan A and everything else is Plan B. Your happiness is everything, everything you want is dependent on you.”
